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Author:  Lysander [ Wed Oct 09, 2013 11:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The Porn/Masturbation/Orgasm (PMO) Reboot thread: SHWING

Dude, in my personal opinion you should definitely try to have sex with her again!

It's possible that the reason you had problems the first time was because you have a porn addiction and all that... but it's also possible that you were nervous or that you were thinking about things too much, or there was something else going on. One incident is nothing to worry about.

When you have sex with her again try not to go into it with too many expectations. Relax and just enjoy the moment and whatever is happening at the time. If you focus on your performance or your ability to get an erection, you'll tend to be more stressed, anxious or doubtful than aroused. I prefer to focus on making sex an expression of something I feel which seems to automatically refocus my attention away from thinking too much.

Letting her jerk you off wouldn't be a problem in my opinion. The whole thing about avoiding porn/masturbation/orgasm is about weakening the connections in your brain between porn and orgasm. If you're having sex with a girl you're strengthening the connections in your brain between real sex and orgasm, which is what you would want.

Author:  quijana [ Thu Oct 10, 2013 1:04 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The Porn/Masturbation/Orgasm (PMO) Reboot thread: SHWING

Hey man, thx for,the responde, it definitely had to do something with the flatline, I was nervous too for a while, but I really felt my dick weak, my ejaculation (when she masturbated me) was abundant but it felt weird I would say that it felt weak too, the days after our fails attempt I felt completely with out libido, my dick felt different too, I watched at porn ( at the time haven't read about ybop), just to see if I could get and erection, but I could not!, what I saw was really hot, my brain new, but my friend did not respond. I'm very happy this girl help me realize I had a problem, I was watching tranny porn as the regular, I switched to straight porn only when I get bored of tranny porn. I knew, that porn was bad for me long ago but did not have the knowledge (dopamine abuse etc..) In my libertarian view of the world I thought it was good to explore fetiches and kinkiness, my view have changed, I want to be aroused by small things, hey well I'm gonna go no PM at least 30 days!, thanks again

Author:  DecisionTime [ Thu Oct 10, 2013 3:40 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The Porn/Masturbation/Orgasm (PMO) Reboot thread: SHWING

quijana,

If you can't get it up, it's because, on some level, you don't want to have sex with her.

Obviously, you're here telling us that you do want to have sex with her so there's conflict there. Take a hard look at the situation and try to figure out how you actually feel about sex with her and sex and general.

I've had similar issues that I'm still working through. What I've realized is that, by pursuing sex, I was seeking two types of validation. One type of validation was from the woman - I wanted some kind of comfort from her. The other type of validation was relative to ideas that I had about myself that were not my own, specifically that I needed to be seeking sex. The problem is that neither of these needs for validation could be fulfilled by sex. The comfort that I was seeking from women was based on an idea of what she could give me, but that mindset was misaligned with the mindset needed for sex. The second type of validation was about fear and not truly about a desire for sex. These perceptions caused my sexual relationships to be short-lived and unfulfilling.

If you're anything like me, you probably will not find a quick fix to this issue. Your issues might be different, though.

Author:  quijana [ Thu Oct 10, 2013 11:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The Porn/Masturbation/Orgasm (PMO) Reboot thread: SHWING

Hey thx for the responde man, it could be! But I really enjoy being with her, we kiss and touch a lot in the car, I always end up with my underpants dirty, so I do wanna have sex with her I'm worried about that I cant sustain an erection or that by having sex with her I go back to a flat line, or that I do no reboot properly, I'll tell her about, we still can play and I could give her oral sex, flatline is really scary when you haven't read about, I literally felt castrated, overall I fell really happy I get to know about porn dangers, it took PIED for me, Il try to spread the word

Author:  LZNBenny [ Thu Jun 02, 2016 11:48 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The Porn/Masturbation/Orgasm (PMO) Reboot thread: SHWING

Those are very promising results and I just can’t help myself but to be inspired by what you achieved in 60 days.

May I ask how old you are Lysander? I’m in my 30’s and still masturbate with an average of 2 times a day. I tried having breaks but only last 2 days and I’m back on my computer or phone searching for porn.

This is my dilemma, I’m enjoying doing it more by myself than with my partner. (Great film on this by the way, Don Jon with Joseph Gordon-Levitt and Scarlett Johansson) When me and my partner is having sex I’m having a hard time getting hard. I’ve started some research and found these two articles which have recommended natural supplements (what do you think?)”

http://www.mensaxis.com/the-best-male-enhancement-pills-and-supplements-for-a-powerful-sex-drive/

http://thestallionstyle.com/top-5-male-enhancement-pills-on-the-market/

I’ve tried viagra and cialis, yes they do work but I’m thinking more of a natural method to fix my problem. That’s why I’m excited to try the Masturbation Reboot method. ☺

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