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PostPosted: Thu May 03, 2012 12:40 pm 
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Is it considered cheating if you look at porn/pics and grope yourself? Not actually have an orgasm?

I've been doing that a little bit and now my balls feels like they're going to explode. >.< But I refuse to give up and relieve myself.


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jjahuja: I know all about this feeling. "I will just look at some pretty girls, that is not cheating"

I am doing the best I can to stay away from that kind of thing. The urge can be huge, and the mind can trick us into believing that it is legit, but don't tempt yourself. If you feel the urge, and it is almost irresitable, try and go out outside to get some fresh air. Clear your mind. I know it helps me :)


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Godamnit, seriously? You all are very strong. I've been in this no fapping for 5 days, monday I was jogging when I saw a very gorgeous woman, with a great butt(I'm brazilan). I almost jumped on her, I didn't because I was with my 2 years brother, I didn't relapsed 'cause I took a cold wash. And Sean(AKA Jjahuja) I allready got this "balls explosion" feeling, in a exam day, but heck, I did pretty good in it, miracles happen.


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haha, great to hear that Wolfie :)

today, I saw a girl from a class under me.. damn it, I wanted to jump her right there, and take her on the table :)

keep going, I have tried this before. after about 7-10 days it will get a lot easier.


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Yeah that was the most painful thing I ever underwent yesterday. I sure learned my lesson not to try that again. But I didn't release myself and take the easier way out. I sucked it up,got angry,(the motivated inspirational way) worked out then went to bed. I made it.


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end of day 8 now... my beautiful dong wants some action, but no way I am giving up when I am going so strong :)

Keep it up guys! you are doing great


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I've been reading the comics of a guy named Jay Naylor, and this one really illustrate how men become after several weeks:
http:// jaynaylor.com/originallife/ comic/OL271.12-01-02.jpg

Just take out the space to see it, I laughted a lot


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jjahuja wrote:
Is it considered cheating if you look at porn/pics and grope yourself? Not actually have an orgasm?

I've been doing that a little bit and now my balls feels like they're going to explode. >.< But I refuse to give up and relieve myself.


The point of avoiding Porn, Masturbation and Orgasm (PMO) all together is to do with how your brain works. Basically by jerking off to porn regularly, you build connections in your brain that link arousal more strongly to porn than to real women.

By avoiding all three for 60 (or more) days, you allow the links between arousal and porn to weaken, and you can start rebuilding the 'maps' in your brain that connect arousal to real women.

If I'm not mistaken, watching porn and 'edging', (i.e. whacking off but staying on the verge of cumming without orgasm) actually helps strengthen the links between arousal and porn quite well, because your brain continues to release dopamine, a reward chemical, which helps build and strengthen connections in the brain.

So if you're watching porn and edging, you're still teaching your brain to be turned on by porn more than reality, because you get shitloads more dopamine being released when you're sitting at the computer than when you're in bed with a woman.

If you want the full explanation, go to yourbrainonporn.com and watch some of the videos there...

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Sorry guys, I relapsed today, so my days returned to zero now, well, gotta keep trying.


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don't be too hard on yourself Wolfie... Learn from your mistake, and get on with it. I have also tried relapsing, and it doesn't feel good afterwards. Let this feeling build up inside of you, and decide for yourself that you will not let this happen again. then your relapse will have helped you :)

cheers.

I am on day 9 now and going strong


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