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PostPosted: Sun May 06, 2012 6:43 am 
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day 10, yay!

yesterday, I went very close to relapsing but I didn't. I have a cool tip for you:

- if the pressure gets unbearable, then cool of your genitals with some very cold water. not icey, but is has to be very cold. then simply dip your genitals into the bowl of water or spray it on in the shower for 30 seconds.

believe you me, after this the pressure is gone. it is non existent. just do it everytime you are about to break, and you will come out on top every time.

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PostPosted: Sun May 06, 2012 10:41 am 
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Agh well fuck me I relapsed. Made it 11 days. Not too pissed at myself I was edging way too much and this gives me another opportunity to go hard and try again and do whatever it takes to change my life. Plus I learned something. I only really edge myself or fap if I get really depressed because I'm missing some feelings. If I can fell fullfilled I'll be able to control my urges a lot better.


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PostPosted: Tue May 08, 2012 8:29 pm 
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Fourth day now, got to keep going!


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PostPosted: Mon May 28, 2012 1:03 pm 
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I never formally did a 60 day mission. But I did do something really weird which helped me get over porn.

I watched porn just to watch it. This means watching a porn video without the intent of masturbating or just watching the video as long as you can without masturbating. At first I got the really strong urge to jerk it and lots of times I couldn't help but jerk it. After a month though I noticed that I was watching the porn as a movie (a really poorly acted movie haha). Now, I'll watch it and get a little bored by it.

Also, a few people have wrote about this, and Lysander mentioned it in this thread, but you don't have to stop masturbating altogether. Try conscious masturbating, where you jerk off but aren't watching anything, instead you're focused on the sensations in your own body. It actually works really well for developing focus, like meditation. But it's really hard to do without any stimulation.

Anyway, that's what worked for me, probably not as effective as the 60-day that you guys did, but maybe someone wants to try it out. I haven't had the urge to 'bate in a month or so...


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After just reading this post it has given me the motivation to start my own 60-day challenge!

Didn't wank yesterday so here I go, - Day 2!

I have only ever gone for like a week since starting so this should be interesting, will keep updating!


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You can tell be all of those exclamation marks that I'm pumped for this haha

Also going to try and get my wingmen to get in on the challenge!


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admitted, I have relapsed quite a few times over the last few days... It is like I don't even know how it happened..

anyway, the challenge for me is to LEARN from this relapse, and what I learned is this:
- there is no fulfillment in porn and masturbation, only stress release. Exercise can do the same thing, so exercise instead
- I have lost concentration and energy with my relapse
- I have been noticing patterns of being more self consciuos

this is not acceptable for me... Now I know every consequence of not doing this! damn it, I am better than that, so here i go again: day 1


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This is insane, the results are amazing, and everything that it's helped you and others realize is phenomenal. I just found it and I'm starting. I haven't masturbaed since June 6th (D-Day, how fitting), so 57 more days. This really is awesome, thanks for posting it!


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Thankyou for posting this. I'm currently on Day 13 and have already noticed my focus gone through the roof. Like right now I am sitting here reading and writing while top gear is on the TV in front of me and still managing to stay focused lol.

This article made me realise something that I think is very important. That women are beautiful and it really is ok to have sexual feelings toward them and show them that... This might sound weird but I have gone through my life for many years trying to separate myself from the sexual aspect of talking to women, possibly because it was very daunting.

THANKS MATE


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Day 14 - killing it. Definately not looking forward to what Lysander says about losing your libido in this post.

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