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 Post subject: 12 week No-E Challenge
PostPosted: Thu Jul 19, 2012 8:06 pm 
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I am a little late to the party describing my mission, but I am currently in the middle of of a 12 week no-ejaculation mission. Tomorrow, I will be 8 weeks into the challenge without fail :-)

The main idea with this challenge is to regain my natural body sensitivity, which has been eroded by frequent, hard and fast masturbation.

The challenge was formed based on my interest in tantra, which prescribes sexual continence (preserving semen). One of the amazing things about playing with tantra (even without a partner) is that you start to experience your entire body as this sensuous, sensitive organ, and not just your genitals. I have had experiences, that has let me to believe that full body orgasms and / or multiple orgasms are indeed possible (although I haven't experienced them yet).

The first two weeks was very hard, especially as I got some instances of "blue balls" from being erect for too long. But at this point it is much easier, and it feels . As I have also practiced "Kegels" I now find it much easier to pull back from the brink.

As for the benefits of this practice? It is really hard to say, as I am also practicing mindfulness and radical self-acceptance at the same time. So this is not exactly a controlled experiment, where I only change one variable at a time. Frankly, there are so many amazing things happening with me right now.

But I do recognize that I am now turned on by much plainer girls and having much simpler fantasies. I know some of you might think this is not an advantage :-)

More seriously, even if I have never been much into internet porn, I can recognize that there is a huge amount of desensitization going on from porn, photoshopped pictures of models, women having cosmetic surgery, commercials etc. And while there is nothing from with wanting someone who is aesthetically pleasing, I can now also see that there is a lot of "getting" in wanting someone hot.

In a greater perspective, this scenario plays out in all parts of our lives. Wanting, wanting, wanting, wanting to no end.
This realization is now leading me towards a more spiritual path.

OK, I am starting to digress. In any case, I am probably more on a change of life direction than on a 12 week mission. This was just one step.


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PostPosted: Thu Aug 02, 2012 11:37 am 
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Alrighty folks I keep fucking this up. And I hate having this drain my life. Does anyone have tips for a new beginners to help you get through the first couple of weeks? Or is it strict will power? Because I swear to god it's just the pleasure I get that I'm addicted to. I don't even jack off to porn I think of stuff in my head.


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PostPosted: Thu Aug 02, 2012 5:07 pm 
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Hey dude,

At your age I can imagine a reboot would be a pretty tough challenge. When I did my first reboot, I did it because I felt my sex drive was low. I've seen a few guys here on the boards struggle with reboots because their sex drive is high.

If you're fantasizing a lot naturally, without porn, that's probably a good sign. If your sex drive is high, that's probably a good sign. Without knowing anything else it sounds like you're normal.

Right now I'm sorta doing the no PMO thing but last night I had numerous sex related dreams, and I keep having fantasies about a girl I know. I consider that a good thing, because it means my sex drive is active.

What was your purpose behind trying to do a reboot?


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PostPosted: Fri Aug 03, 2012 12:16 pm 
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Tbh...I don't know haha. I always fucked up the 30 day pmo in get real and I wanted to see it get done.


One thing I notice is that I feel drained and depressed after I ejaculate. And if I do it before a workout I'm fucked. I generally do it at night before I go to sleep/help me to get to sleep.


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PostPosted: Fri Aug 03, 2012 1:24 pm 
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Fair enough- maybe set yourself a shorter challenge.

Go for 1 week. Then if you get to the end of the week and you think you can still hold out, see how much longer you can hold out. Let's say you get to 10 days, that's fine.

The next day, restart and make 11 days your new goal, then repeat.

But maybe you don't need to do a full 30 or 60 day thing. Maybe you should set your own goal with this. Y'know, as always, figure out what kind of life you want to live and take the action that moves you toward that...


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PostPosted: Fri Aug 03, 2012 1:46 pm 
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Got it.

Maybe the idea for me is make sure that jerking it doesn't actually take away from my actual life. Still be able to do what i need to do and not ruin time just fapping.


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PostPosted: Tue Oct 16, 2012 3:01 am 
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Mariano wrote:
You can massage the balls to help relieve the pain.



I wouldn't try that. This is leading to masturbation for me.:)


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 24, 2012 4:19 am 
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jjahuja wrote:
Tbh...I don't know haha. I always fucked up the 30 day pmo in get real and I wanted to see it get done.


One thing I notice is that I feel drained and depressed after I ejaculate. And if I do it before a workout I'm fucked. I generally do it at night before I go to sleep/help me to get to sleep.


I am doing the 19days of challenge but I don't think I should stop there. But I really don't know. Its been tough since I have been stressed out the past few days, all I want to do is fap. Do you think I should have a specific goal in terms of how many days?


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 24, 2012 11:58 pm 
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I'm going to rejoin the wagon because I miss the presence in my body and the extra bit of oomph and dominance I have around women, and even men. It's as though people in general seem to listen to me more and look towards me as a leader. I feel after 2 days of breaking the challenge that things are returning to the fatigue, lack of motivation and caffeine and nicotine cravings again (not smoking at all but feeling like it plus 1-2 energy drinks/coffees per day) which aren't great for the heart or cardiovascular fitness.


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