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PostPosted: Wed Jul 17, 2013 1:50 pm 
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Great to hear that, leigh

One of the things I struggle with is self amusement (not for the girl, but for myself). I´m very inside my head and tend to be very serious, specially when I´m with friends and they express their fredom in a way I like to have, but because of this my reality gets "absorbed" by the strong reality of them.

How do I feed my self amusement and make it stronger?


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in 'SCS' you spoke about seeing the world in dichotomies, in my case i saw my peers as either 'cool' or 'nerdy' because i made it my purpose at school to be one of the popular guys.

i knew back then that i couldn't control other people, but i blocked that out because i felt i had no choice. and i even went so far as to be in denial about this. as a result i wandered why i felt so anxious and rigid around the so called 'popular' guys, whilst being free and comfortable around those i perceived to be 'losers'. i logically concluded that i wasn't good enough, and because i couldn't accept that i had to continue down the same path.

i realized that it was the purpose itself was the actual cause when i shifted my target to a group of new students in the latter years of school. i found that all of a sudden i got along with the guys that i used to be intimidated by because i was no longer seeking something from them. nevertheless, it was merely exchanging one group/ set of people for another, the purpose remained the same and i still to this day feel dissatisfied. furthermore, i realized, even though i went to an all boys school, that the same mechanisms are at play when it comes to women.

so how do i stop categorizing people for a start? what's the difference between being selective and what i do? and given that it's my purpose, i don't see how else i can satisfy it, because many of those dudes that i envied are not very different than me in other areas of their lives, for example they tended to slack off a lot and yet they weren't like me what with being celibate and not going out very much..?


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... thanks, i'm John by the way (better than awkward teenager) :)


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 Post subject: Re: Ask me ANYTHING!!!!
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I can't help but notice that everything taught by AI can be a insane help to anyone looking to be happy in their life, the thing is though, it seems as though women could also benefit from applying the principles AI teaches. Now the question: In SCS/Endgame you mention that women get their certainty from a different source compared to men, do you think they can also use AI principles to become happy ?

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I think Christian poses a great question. I'm curious for the answer as well.

A very dear female friend of mine was crushed horribly when her ex-boyfriend (who was coincidentally my best friend) dumped her after almost 2 years. She never really recovered and was most recently emotionally destroyed when she found out about his new girlfriend via my facebook page. Now she doesn't want anything to do with me because I still live with the dude and neither I nor her friends can make her realize how great she is and that she needs to move on to someone better.

I feel like she needs to start realizing her true potential just like I did when I discovered AI. What are your thoughts on this?


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 Post subject: Re: Ask me ANYTHING!!!!
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Hello Leigh,

I’m 17 and I have issues with physical escalation. The only time I kissed a girl and made out with her was in a disco, where I simply took her by her hand and started making out.

I have absolutely no idea how to escalate in daytime during a conversation.

Here I am, here she ist, she is hot, we are talking with C&F and rapport, how can I get her to sit on my lap, get to an intimacy level where I can kiss her or at least hold hands with her?

How do I escalate (during a daytime conversation)?


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