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PostPosted: Tue Jul 13, 2010 11:47 pm 
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Just curious. I love hearing stories of how guys have changed throughout the course of their journey. How have you changed and how much more do you want to change?


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PostPosted: Wed Jul 14, 2010 3:21 am 
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I went from valuing experiences based on what others thought about me or what others were doing, to valuing experiences based on what I expect from me, what I want to do (i.e being with friends, independently from the activity itself), what I think is right, what I desire to do, to be. This has yielded me not only true happiness but also kind of respect from other people.

Hmmm, what else...? Ah! I went from being kind of frustrated with girls and sometimes life, with fear of exposing myself to them, to... being able to tell a girl that I liked her and wanted to kiss her, without becoming nervous (well, a little lol) or running out of things to say. I know that it would be better if I had the guts to just kiss her, or if she had had the same feelings ( :lol: ) but it still is the farthest that I have come, and I felt and feel great for that.

Where do I want to go now... I want to improve/eliminate some personality quirks I think I have, that I think I have developed without noticing, that sometimes make me look antisocial or angry... :P I also want to continue exercising and meeting new people, and of course, continue to smash the barriers that stop me!

Thank you very much to you, LoGun, and all the other members of A.I that give great help to smash my barriers both in the forums and in the Blog. (L)


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PostPosted: Fri Jul 16, 2010 6:49 pm 
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Where were you?


Lost, in most respects. Wandering. Desperate. Unhappy.

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Where are you now?


Not lost anymore, but still wandering.
Got my life/self under control. Balanced and happy- in spite of loneliness.


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Keep wandering. Get rid of loneliness. Make friends. Attract girls consistently.


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PostPosted: Sun Aug 29, 2010 4:45 am 
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before: very shy. afraid of the world and its pleasures/pain.

now: still a bit shy, but I don't consider it being a problem anymore. Not having the success i want, but I'm happy knowing that I'm finally doing something to create my life.

Where I want to go: to a place, where I can find all happiness and satisfaction from within, with no jalouxy (spelled correct?) and anxiety. But to go there, I need advice :)


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PostPosted: Wed Sep 01, 2010 2:59 pm 
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Where were you?

I was a shy person who often felt lonely and felt inferior about himself. Talking to girls was a HUGE deal to me. I was always hiding and 'pretending' to be someone else around women. This also extended out to other parts of my life.

Where are you now?

My life has completely changed as compared to 3 years ago. I am hell of a lot more self expressed, I am confident, I socialise a lot more and have some wonderful friends. I am part of a Charity Organisation which raises money for underprivileged kids in 3rd world countries. We do this by running events for young professionals around Sydney. This has been an extremely rewarding part of my life.

My success in life has not filtered through to my love life yet. My situation with girls is a lot better than it was before, but I am still not fully self expressed around women. I tend to accept whoever that comes along - I am not fully focused and self expressed on what I want in a relationship and often go out with women to make myself feel better and fill in the 'gap'

Where do you want to go?

Find and keep that girl of my dreams. I want to be open and honest and find someone that I connect with.
I want to be fully self expressed in every aspect of my life and not have to worry about what others think of me.


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PostPosted: Mon Sep 06, 2010 12:55 am 
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Note to self: Look at forum first, start topic later


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PostPosted: Tue Sep 07, 2010 10:21 am 
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I came from a place of hatred and always wanting to "get" something from girls. Not "give something to girls".

I am now seeing the light. I am trying to come from a place of abundance, trying to lose my hatred, lose my ego, lose my judgement and see people as who they are and enjoy my life and my experiences on the way there.

I want to be the masculine man that i was made to be. successful in all areas of my life.


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PostPosted: Thu Sep 16, 2010 2:34 am 
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Great questons LoGun.

Early summer this year I had a breakthrough about "inner game", about the world we live in and the universe. What is our purpose on the earth? To have as much fun as possible, to live the life you want. It's that simple yet all these "gurus" out there talk about something entirely different. Some don't even know they went through an inner game process themselves. They believe it was the technniques that work and not the meaning behind it.

I want to further improve my inner game. I'm at a point where I found this site and it's what I need. Through all my learnings, readings, watching of Zen, Power of Now, Science etc... it all comes down to YOU. Thanks LoGun!


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PostPosted: Thu Sep 30, 2010 7:00 am 
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I`ve just stopped getting and started giving. I just recently told that girl that ì`ve been in love with her for as long as I know her. You know THAT girl. The girl that makes you feel all fuzzy inside, share her stories with you with passion and love, cares unconditionally abaut everyone that`s in her life. Man she`s awesome. Ofcourse she did not have the same feelings for me. And I now know why. I`v been trying to take from her as long as I`ve known her. But it just felt so liberating. So fantasticly liberating. Now I just need a little bit of help. What`s holding me back from having incredible relationships with her and other women is that I`m no longer the center of my universe. She is. I have to get rid of me giving for her to like me. I like giving and do stuff for the people I care about, but it`s just to feel like I deserve her. I want to free her from me needing her. Because she deserve it.
did I mention shes awesome?


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 06, 2010 12:42 pm 
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That's great to hear mate.

It's so liberating to be able to share yourself openly and freely. I'm glad you were able to experience it.


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