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PostPosted: Mon Jul 20, 2009 10:25 pm 
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Such simple advice really, but so effective. I need to put this into practice more!


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I keep coming back to this post - it's all there, pretty much everything you'll ever need to know.


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PostPosted: Mon Sep 28, 2009 4:36 pm 
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Evolver wrote:
Try going to a mall and just walk around (or sit) and observe beautiful women around you. Don't worry about approaching, but when you notice a girl that turns you on, observe the thoughts and feelings that come to you. Can you express those thoughts and feelings verbally? This is what being genuine is about versus having some line that is supposed to work. Most of the time, the woman can feel if you are being genuine or saying something that you hope she will approve of.

Are you approaching her to see if she'll like you or are you approaching her to see if she is the type of woman you are looking for?


awesome post man, this has deff cleared things up for me, although im glad i read The Game in the sense that it gave me the kick in the ass i needed to start pusuing this, i think it also kinda hindered me as it pretty much gets you in the magic trick, peacocking, stacked routine mindset.. to a point where you start to believe you NEED routines and openers to talk to girls..

SO glad i found this forum, haha

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guilt thats so awesome you realise that because it can be a very hard time for months trying to unlearn everything otherwise.


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Great post i really like it. Thanks.
While I was reading it , I was imaging me gaming a girl on the street, I was saying the words with confidence and it worked in my imagination at least :P I could see the girl being sucked into my reality.


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wow awsome post u guys are all leagues ahead of me a truly inspirational post, i will try to incorporate it tonight as im going out...


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You just need to follow feelings


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Great post!!!!

So many guys put so much pressure on opening (as did I)

It´s really so stupidly simple if you stop and look at it.


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next time I'm out with some friendsI'm definately going to have to do this the only thing that wierds me out is it really necessary to go say Hi I know this is probably wierd but I find you extremely beautiful, and was wondering if I could talk to you


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Maybe you missed this part of the post:

"In the end, it’s not about what you say. It’s HOW you say it."

If you turn the exact wording of the example into a line, you're missing the point - and you may as well just go with "Who lies more?" or whatever community line you want.

"Hi - when I saw you, I started wondering whether it would be weird to just come up to you and tell you how beautiful you are to me. Then I thought I may as well just come and ask you."

Tangent: I'm not some PUA ninja master or anything, but for me it's SO much easier to hit on a girl if I just tell her she's a babe straight up. In fact I don't know if I even know another way. At some point it's going to be clear that I think she's yummy, either because I told her or because I'm pulling her in for a kiss.


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