Hey saintli,
That Three Laws book blew me away too, I'm glad you're also finding it useful.
And yes, it's really clear to me that who I'm being in those jobs is someone who doesn't care. Hospitality jobs are relatively easy to get once you have experience, and so there's never been much at stake for me in losing them.
So the default, most probable future for me - unless I alter who I'm being in those jobs - is more firings, more hassle, less cash flow, more bosses who are upset with me, unrest in their life, loss of revenue for the venues in which I work and increased workload on other staff members.
Do I want to be creating that around me? Well, no. Enough of playing that game. Hence the choice to transform that part of my life.
The problem was rooted in this - my life had two parts. First part was AI and all associated activity, which I deemed as "important". And then there was everything else - my second jobs and, until recent past, my finances, my health, even at times my relationships - which I deemed as "I will take care of them later" or "will see what happens" or the good old Aussie "she'll be right"..
That doesn't work for me any more. So here's what I'm trying on:
Everything is important. There are no "areas of life". There is only life, and who I'm being in every moment.
Every area is a playground where I can grow by placing myself outside my comfort zone and noticing what comes up for me.
What frustrations and issues arise? What do I reject in that environment? Where in that environment is a loss of power for me? Where is my performance not at its fullest?
AI then becomes a place where I share this transformation, so that others can benefit.
Which means that if any "area" of my life is lacking integrity or is performing poorly, I'm undermining AI. So, I've gone from having very little at stake in those hospitality jobs to having everything at stake

The game just got much, much, much bigger.
Does that offer you anything? What came up for you as you read this?
Steven