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PostPosted: Sat May 28, 2016 2:39 am 
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I feel this is one of my biggest hurdles at the moment.

At times I feel a shift like I'm almost able to do it but the fear is ridiculous.

Some of the advice;

Meditate.

Ask yourself, "What kind of man do I want to be and what would he do" If the answer is approach but there's too much anxiety ask again, "What kind of man do I want to be and what would he do" the answer will probably approach anyway so do it.

Then there's just expressing what ever is coming up, so if it's, "Hi I think you're beautiful and I wanted to come and meet you. But now my mind has gone blank." Say that.

Then there is taking small steps toward it, like just noticing what you would say to that hot girl, then walking towards her and noticing what you'd say, then making eye contact and smiling, then saying what you'd want to say in a comfortable situation etc. and building up toward complete freedom.

All of these things seem helpful and should be, but I still struggle with this. I'm improving all the other areas of my life, my general social anxiety has dissipated, I love myself, I'm able to be far more open and vulnerable, I have approached women before, but I still find this area so difficult and it shouldn't be.

I'm wondering if any of you guys who really struggled with this before but have found a way that worked for you. Just doing it has't worked for me as I have done that. There have been brief moments where I feel like I could do it, but that never seems to be the case when actual when I actually have the opportunity.

Thoughts guys?


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