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PostPosted: Fri Aug 24, 2012 5:56 am 
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While we are discussing techniques like Reframing, Disqualification etc., I want to discuss the technique known as Induced Addiction and I want members to come up with examples. The principle behind this is to do the same thing again and again with her until it becomes a habit and she gets addicted to it. I had a female colleague with whom I went out for lunch for a couple of days but then she realized that it is really not a good idea to go out with me every day especially in front of other colleagues. So she stopped and I let her stay away for few days. But then after few days she wanted to go out with me again. After repeating this pattern for several times she is now addicted to going out with me. Every day she will ask or come to my office to go out for lunch with me. I have gone with her even during weekends. The key here is that you have to let her miss you and the fun for a few days to intensify the addiction.

I want everyone to think about inducing addiction by various possible actions, behaviors and scenarios, and post them here because I think this is a very powerful technique.


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Why do you want women to be addicted to you? I'm not quite sure I understand this.

Is it so she doesn't leave you?


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More than addiction, I would say "continued attraction". I have used the word addiction because that is how it was described when I read it somewhere. Yes, I want women to be attracted and somewhat addicted to me? Who don't? I don't mind getting my happiness from external sources while it lasts ...:). Because I know, I will be just fine even when she is gone. There are hundreds of women in this world - I will find another one.


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Ok, thanks for explaining it.

You seem very self aware which is really good to see. And because you're so self aware, I thought you might be interested in looking at this situation a different way.

So, what you're saying is that you're trying to develop a skill that will allow you to continually get a supply of women to make you happy.

What do you think would be a better skill:
1. Learning a trick to become better at making women responsible for your happiness
2. Learning how to be happy, regardless of how many women are in your life

And which one of these skills would be more likely to make women more interested in being part of your life?

I guess a different way of asking this question is: do you think women are more naturally attracted to guys who're internally fulfilled and validated or guys who're trying to find ways to make people outside himself responsible for how he feel?


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The second option above appears to be better on the surface. But it is really not better than the first because "Learning how to be happy, regardless of how many women are in your life" is something really hard to achieve for most men. What if you have zero woman? Will you still be happy? It requires a lot of hard work and dedication to achieve that state. You will actually go though a lot of pain until you achieve it. I will rather go though alternate pain and pleasure - enjoy the pleasure when it comes and remain steady when pain ensues knowing that pain will not last for ever. To me both methods are equally good or bad. I will choose one method one day and may switch to the other if I get bored after a while. Of course I will have a roller-coaster ride and I am not afraid of it. The biggest problem for men is being afraid of the ride, I think. When you are not afraid of the ride, you will remain steady even when you are having the ride!

The fact that women are attracted to certain types of men are irrelevant to me. If I want a woman, I will play all tricks under my sleeve to get her attracted to me. If she is still not attracted, I will happily move on.


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Girl likes spending time with me on a regular basis.

:shock:

Must create new PUA term to explain this phenomenon.

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Most of you here seem to support the idea that we should strive to be internally happy and fulfilled and, as a result, women will be attracted to us. My question is, if you are already internally happy and fulfilled why would you want an woman? Woman is probably one of the last few things in your mind in that case.

What is not emphasized here is that you can't be internally happy and fulfilled unless you have had enough of the so called roller coaster ride. Means you can not get to that state unless you have experienced enough ups and downs with women to know that they can't be relied on as the source of your happiness. This is a matter of convincing your sub-conscious mind through actual results rather than convincing your conscious mind with words, logic and reasons. Unless your sub-conscious mind is programmed to believe that, you will make only temporary progress in that direction. Your conscious mind will agree to everything you have read and learned, but your subconscious mind will reject it. As a result your action will always will be that of a needy and clingy person. Things like intelligence, will power, focus, determination will not help much.

Arriving at the realization that you can't rely of external sources for happiness can be a life-long journey and that is where the techniques of attraction comes in handy. So do not throw them out of the window just yet. Admit it, most of us have not arrived at that realization yet!

I learned couple of other similar tricks from a good friend of mine and I am going to put them in separate threads. I hope you will like them. Use them for fun and do not use them to manipulate anyone.

Now back to the topic of Induced Addiction and examples, please!


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